I read a comment which left on my LJ. What is hardship?

I don’t really think this is an accurate reflection…according to this (just look at my own name right in the centre) I keep reading my OWN journal!! ( I seem to remember a blog by on this topic..waitaminnit, that LJ doesn't figure in this map either!)...and I don't know who this rattlesnake is, though I guess I must have visited at least once for it to figure.. I have not visited zweilinkefusse's defunct LJ for more than a year now....and where are all the other LJ's that I visit ,such as , ,, , and others?)

My generalization of the day is....men are rational about everything else but love. Women..the reverse. We can be contrary, illogical, insane about everything else, but we tend to be very reasonable and pragmatic in matters of the heart. You will NOT find us marrying toyboys (er, not often, anyway)....we tend to look at the whole picture, not just the pulchritude...we would be likely to choose good providers over handsome, useless hunks.

why, when I repeatedly set the preference to English, does my LJ reset itself to HINDI? (out of all the languages available!) I think I must stop referring to Hindi/Urdu ghazals on my posts…my LJ is smarter than I am…

I wrote down the name of the song I was listening to..here is the first  couple of stanzas, with their meaning: